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Hephzibah Dickinson, 1795, Hatfield, MA |
In Memory of
Miss Hephzibah Dickinson
Daughter of Colo Lemuel
and Mrs Molly Dickin
son, who died Decr 29th
1795. in the 21st Year
of hir Age.
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Jerusha Pond Fisher, 1812, Wrentham, MA |
Abigail Carlile, 1797, York, ME |
William Burrough, 1772, Newburyport, MA |
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Sam, 1739, NCBG, Newport, RI |
Joel and Mary Lyman, 1778, Northampton, MA |
Molly disapproves. |
Phebe Seabury, 1715, Little Compton, RI |
Thomas Bancroft, 1718, Wakefield, MA |
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Elizabeth Mortimer Palmer, 1776, Little Compton, RI |
So what on earth is that epitaph supposed to mean? Even if Elizabeth and Simeon were in love/engaged before he married Lidia, why would it still matter in 1776, after Elizabeth and Simeon had been married for over 20 years? It seems a strange grudge to hold. Perhaps Simeon, who outlived both his wives, was responsible for the epitaph and used the opportunity to apologize to Elizabeth for wronging her.Well, apparently, I did not know the half of it. In 1901, a reader named M.L.T. Alden wrote to the Newport Mercury to tell the editor about some local history he had picked up in the 1880s. It is hard to do his letter justice without quoting it at some length:
The whole thing is very strange. Among other things that raise red flags, Elizabeth Mortimer was 11 years older than Simeon Palmer, which certainly isn't outside of the realm of possibility, but would be unusual. Since Simeon married Lidia in 1744, when he was 21 years old, it would mean that any preexisting relationship between Simeon and Elizabeth would be between a very young man and a woman in her 30s. Again, not impossible, but strange for 18th-century New England.
Twenty years ago this summer, I came first to Little Compton. I was much interested in this stone and made inquiries and also consulted the Town records. Aunt Sarah Charles Wilbur, the antiquarian of the village, and also Mrs. Angelina (Palmer) Griswold were then alive and they supplied the details that did not appear on the records of the Town.
The first church of Little Compton, R. I. was organized in 1704 under Rev. Richard Billings, a man of prominence and ability, much beloved, and exerted a strong influence over his charge. He had one idiosyncrasy, however; he firmly believed in cats as an article of diet, and fatted them for the purpose. Amongst his parishioners was a man, Simeon Palmer, of the fine old family resident in Little Compton. He was wealthy married first Lydia Dennis, Aug. 25, 1745, and had Susannah, Gideon, Humphrey, Sarah, Walter and Patience. At some time between 1745 and 1752 he had sunstroke which left him mildly insane and he adopted the views of his minister on cats and insisted on his family using them for food.
Sarah Long, 1674, Phipps St. Charlestown, MA |
John Butterfield, 1766, Chelmsford, MA |
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Isabella Wildrage, 1789, Portland, ME |
John Westcarre, backdated 1675, Hadley, MA |
Edward Thurber, 1795, NBG, Providence, RI |
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Juber Tillinghast, 1773, God's Little Acre, NCBG, Newport, RI |
Catherine Greene, NBG, Providence, RI |
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The Peale Family, c. 1773, Charles Willson Peale* |
Ellin Marion, 1744, Granary Burying Ground, Boston |
Benjamin Peirce, 1735, Phipps Street Cemetery, Charlestown, MA |
Bartholomew Hunt, 1718, Little Compton, RI |